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Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

First Time Testing for STBBIs and HIV/...AIDS?

Introducing procedures of sexually transmitted and blood borne infections clinical testing. Narrative style pres- entation. From waiting room to waiting for results. Includes testing methods (e.g. urine samples).

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Sometimes Feeling Really Depressed After Having Sex

Discussions orbiting post-coital dysphoria. Story telling crucial in delivery. Depression, loneliness, venereophobia, and self-reflection highlighted. Mental health underlined. First-person narrative essential.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Finding Relationships Online... But Hookups for Next Time

Exploring online dating and hookup experiences and digital applications (e.g. Grindr). Elucidating on romantic and sexual relationship dynamics in the 2SLGBTQ+ Community. Safe dating and hook ups underscored.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Growing Up Not Knowing What It Meant to be "Gay"

Vital first-person story telling narrative. Addressing concepts pertaining to sexual identity, gender expression, and coming out. Topics of self-discovery and queerness illuminated from younger to older age contexts.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Experimenting With Sex Toys by Myself ... For Now

Promoting sexual discovery, pleasure, and varying options. Special mention of packers contributing to trans- gender (female-to-male) identity and sexual development. Experiential narratives crucial for discussion.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

So...What Are Sexually Transmitted Infections...?

Discussing variants of sexually transmitted and blood borne infections (e.g. chlamydia). This includes the human immunodeficiency virus and the acquired immunodeficiency syndrome.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

I Don't Understand. I Thought HIV and AIDS Were the Same?

Elucidating on the human immunodeficiency virus and acquired immunodeficiency syndrome. Suppression of stigma against related infections and illuminating “undetectable equals untransmittable” (i.e. U =U).

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Musculinity is Hot But Toxic Masculinity is Not

Exploring masculinity stereotypes, social constructs, and preferences. Addresses toxic and hyper masculinity in the 2SLGBTQ+ Community. Illuminating significance of straight-passing identity and feminine degradation.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Masturbation is Great! But it Can Get Addicting

Discussion orbiting masturbation addiction. Healthy self-discovery and self-pleasure as former discussion; unhealthy masturbatory practices, porn addiction, and long-term impacts as latter discussion.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

I Loved Bareback Sex. But Condoms Felt Better After

Discussing condomless sexual intercourse (oral, vaginal, and anal). Focusing on STBBI transmission prevention including condoms, lubrications, and STBBI and HIV testing. Holistic approach implemented.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

So What's The Deal With Topping and Bottoming?

Investigating sexual positions and roles in oral, anal, and vaginal intercourse. Sexual discovery of dominance and submission. Sexual safety highlighted including douching and healthy sexual engagement preparation.

Date: 05/01/2023 at 08:00PM

Liked Meeting Guys Online. Loved Meeting Guys In-Person

Discussion surrounding 2SLGBTQ+ spaces illimited to digital platforms. Includes the 2SLGBTQ+ Community (e.g. The Village) and commercial hotspots (e.g. bars). Physical and sexual safety and protection illuminated.

Monday, May 01, 2023

Introducing Sexual Health Testing

Have you ever gotten a medical checkup? Endoscopy? Routine Physical Exam? Blood Sugar Test? What about...a Sexual Health Screening? Didn't think so!

In this chapter, we'll be going through different facets of Sexual Health Screenings, including STI/STD Screenings for stuff like Chlamydia and Herpes; Vaccines for Hepatitis A and B; and Blood Tests!

Tuesday, July 04, 2023

Feeling Lonely After Sexual Intercourse

Have you ever felt lonely, anxious, depressed, or irritable after sexual intercourse or masturbating? You're not alone.

Also known as Post-Sex Blues, Post-Coital Dysphoria (PCD) happens. While research shows that 41% men and 32.9% women will experience PCD at some point; another study shows that it might be more common in men than women. Let's explore this!

Friday, September 01, 2023

Online Relationships and Hookups

Let's be honest. Nowadays, digital dating and online relationships are quite prevalent. We have, for example, Tinder, Bumble, Grindr, and Taimi...to name a few.

But when dating online, or hooking up with somebody online, it's important to know a few things first. Like how to do it safely; not getting catphished; and being careful when meeting up!

Thursday, November 02, 2023

What Happened To Sexually Transmitted Diseases

You're not wrong! It was called Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs), but it's now Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs). The difference is that it's more accurate!

I'm sure we've all heard about it: the Gonorrhea, Chlamydia...and Syphilis--yes, it's back. Why don't we talk about it, and explore the interesting facets of all these Sexually Transmitted Infections? (I promise it'll be fun!)

Thursday, February 01, 2024

Sex Toy Experimentation and Gender Affirmation

Like all these topics: this is an exciting one that nobody talks about. SEX TOYS! There are multiple types, including vibrators, anal toys, bondage gear, dildos, cock rings, harnesses, and sex furniture!

But not only that. There are different ways that people interact with toys, whether keeping them concealed from others is a must, or how it affirms who we are. Let's explore that!

Monday, March 04, 2024

Growing Up Gay

Growing up LGBTQ is hard...to say the utmost least. But here's the thing: you're absolutely not alone. In 2018, Canada released a statistic saying how approximately one million Canadians identify as 2SLGBTQ+.

In this chapter of the Totally Outright Program, it's time to actually explore queerness--amidst our different religious, cultural, and racial backgrounds and upbringing!

Wednesday, May 01, 2024

Harm Reduction and Sexually Transmitted Infections

You've probably heard of it, but...what exactly is Harm Reduction? In short, it's a theory, put into practice, of strategies that intend to reduce hazards that're associated with drug use.

Drugs are more common than we think! Sure. The first thought usually is "heroin" or "cocaine", but drugs can also pertain to the coffee you drink in the morning; or the wine you drink in the evening! Let's dive into this!

Monday, July 08, 2024

Toxic Masculinity And Toxic Femininity

What do we think of when "masculinity" comes to mind? What about "femininity"? Did you have a specific image of that came to mind?

Don't worry. These are prototype biases, that're natural to us, to quickly identify specific individuals that fit specific criteria of somebody we're looking for--or in this case, imagining. From body type to social lamination, let's talk about what masculinity and femininity can be!

Monday, September 09, 2024

Reflecting on Relationships and Rebounds

Relationships are complicated. Talking about it is complicated. It's not just friendships: it's the (bro)mance, family, open relationships, long-distance, online relationships, and intrapersonal relationships.

In this component of the Totally Outright Program, we'll be looking at parts of relationships ontop of those listed above: from grief, cheating, and porn-ography, to healing, recovery, and self-reflection. See? It's complicated.

Friday, November 01, 2024

The Riskiness of Bareback Intercourse

I'll tell you first-hand that bareback intercourse...feels phenomenal! But. It's important to know how to be safe going about it; and to explore other options before barebacking.

From primarily deciding whether barebacking is a good idea with specific partners, to how douching properly can help with barebacking; let's dive into safety practices that can help relieve some stress associated with it.

Friday, January 31, 2025

The Top-to-Bottom of Topping and Bottoming

I'd argue that topping and bottoming is always the quintessential topic of sex--whether it's referred indirectly through domination or submission; or directly through topping somebody or bottoming for somebody.

Whichever it is, there's a lot to discuss. From communication to safety, topping and bottoming can always be done safely where everybody can engage in sexual experimentation in an intimate, judgement-free space!

Monday, March 03, 2025

A Night Out Meeting, Dating, and Hooking Up

You might've seen it or been there: whether it's a bright day brunch with drag queens, or a glittery night at a bar bumping arm-to-arm with others; we're bound to meet, date, or even hook-up with others!

But how do we do that safely? Now this should be the quintessential topic of a day or night out. In this chapter, we'll be exploring safe-dating ways to maintain a positive--and happy--time out. Wherever you are!

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